Last night I went out for a friend’s birthday and while we were out, a couple of girls who were with us tried to enlighten me on the “creepy” guy syndrome. Thankfully, I don’t think I fall into that category, but they explained to me that there are a lot of guys out there who are creepy. So what makes a guy creepy, they said it is hard to define per se, but it is a feeling the guy gives you. Maybe he stares at you too much, the way he walks up to you staring, and then moves away still staring. Maybe it is the way he doesn’t take a hint when he is talking to you and your group of friends.
How can you tell if you are creeping out a bunch of girls? Well, first if you notice when you approach they start to circle around each other like a roman phalanx. Second, do you get the vibe that they are excluding you from their conversation. Lastly, do they immediately change the conversation when you approach.
Body language is hard to tell and women by nature want to be nice to you. However, sometimes if you see women rolling their eyes, pulling away, and trying to avoid you. You should regroup, rethink, and maybe just leave them alone.
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